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Consent-first always   •   Privacy is non-negotiable   •   Respect keeps it fun

Lifestyle Guide

Wicked Fun Member Guide

Welcome in. Whether you’re brand new or years into the lifestyle, this page keeps things simple: clear guidelines, solid etiquette, and real answers to common questions—so your night stays fun, comfortable, and drama-free.

Guidelines for Swinging

There’s no “one right way” to swing. The goal is mutual enthusiasm, clear communication, and comfort for everyone involved. If you remember nothing else: go slow, ask first, and check in often.

1) Communication is Key

Talk before you arrive. Agree on boundaries, comfort levels, and what “too much” looks like for either of you.

2) Set Clear Boundaries

Define what’s okay and what’s not — touching, kissing, oral, full swap, etc. Your boundaries can change anytime.

3) Consent is Crucial

Ask before touching, joining, or escalating. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any moment.

4) Take It Slow

Your first event can be social only. No pressure—ever. You’re allowed to learn the vibe first.

5) Have a Signal

Create a private “pause” signal — a phrase, touch, or look — so either partner can stop or step away without drama.

6) Respect Everyone Involved

No pressure, no persuasion, no entitlement. Kindness and social awareness are the ultimate turn-ons.

7) Be Prepared for Emotions

Unexpected feelings can happen. If something hits wrong, pause, reconnect, and adjust your boundaries.

8) Practice Safer Sex

Protect yourself based on your personal comfort level and agreements. When in doubt, choose safer.

9) Aftercare Matters

After the event, check in gently. Talk about what felt good, what didn’t, and what you’d like to do next time.

10) Enjoy the Experience

Relax. Have fun. Keep it mutual. The best nights come from good energy—not rushing to a finish line.

Best advice: It’s okay to say “not tonight.” It’s also okay to say “yes, but slowly.” Your pace is the right pace.

Etiquette

Etiquette is what keeps Wicked Fun feeling relaxed, classy, and safe. These are the behaviors that make people want to talk to you, flirt with you, and maybe invite you closer.

Consent & Touching

Always ask before touching. “No” is a complete sentence. Silence or hesitation is also a “no.”

Rejection

Don’t take it personally. Smile, say “No worries,” and move on. Rejection happens to everyone.

Approaching Couples

Start with conversation—not assumptions. Be friendly, not pushy. Let interest build naturally.

Jealousy & Check-ins

If jealousy shows up, pause and communicate. Adjust rules to protect your relationship and your night.

Arrive & Leave Together

Couples should arrive and depart together. It reinforces priority and prevents misunderstandings.

Good Judgment

If something feels off, don’t ignore it. Step away, regroup, and ask staff for help if needed.

Play Areas

Play areas are for active participants. If you’re watching, make sure it’s welcome and keep it respectful.

Privacy & Discretion

No photos, no recording, no gossiping about identities. What happens here stays here.

Volume & Vibe

Keep voices down in intimate spaces. Respect the venue, staff, and neighbors—inside and outside.

Cleanliness

Pick up after yourself. If there’s an issue, notify staff right away so it can be handled discreetly.

Pro tip: The most attractive people in the room are the ones who make others feel comfortable.

FAQs

We grouped FAQs so it’s easy to find what you need. Tap a category to jump.

First Timers

Do we have to play at our first event?

No. Many members come just to socialize, get comfortable, and meet people. There is zero pressure to play.

Is it normal to feel nervous?

Completely normal. Take your time, stay connected with your partner, and keep it social if that feels best.

What should we do when we arrive?

Check in, take a lap, get a feel for the vibe, and start with conversation. You can keep it simple and slow.

What should we wear?

Dress to feel confident. If there’s a theme, follow it if you want. If you’re unsure: classy, clean, and sexy always works.

What should we bring?

Bring your ID, anything you need for comfort, and whatever you personally prefer for safer sex.

Privacy & Discretion

Can we use our phones?

Phones are not used in event spaces unless staff explicitly permits phone use in a specific area.

Can we take photos anywhere?

Only if staff allows it in a specifically approved area—and never of other members without permission.

Can we talk about people we met afterward?

Be discreet. Do not share identities, names, or personal details without permission.

Play Areas

Can we watch others in the play areas?

Only if it’s clearly welcome. If you’re not sure, ask. Prolonged observation without consent isn’t permitted.

Do we have to use the playrooms?

No. Plenty of members come just to socialize and enjoy the atmosphere.

Is it okay to join others already playing?

Only if you’re explicitly invited. If you want to join, ask respectfully—never assume.

Couples Questions

What if one of us wants to play and the other doesn’t?

Pause and communicate. Either partner can say “not tonight.” A no from either person should be respected immediately.

Do couples have to stay together all night?

You don’t need to be glued together, but you should stay connected and check in often. Couples should arrive and depart together.

What if we feel jealous or emotional afterward?

That happens. Talk privately and kindly. Treat it as feedback and adjust boundaries for next time.

Logistics

What time should we arrive?

Arrive near doors opening if you want the most social time. If you arrive late, you may miss the best mingling window.

What if we have an issue during the event?

Find staff immediately. Don’t try to handle escalating situations on your own.

Can we invite friends?

Sometimes—depending on the event. Ask staff first and make sure they understand consent and privacy expectations.

Still have questions?

Ask staff anytime. We’re here to help you feel comfortable and enjoy the experience.

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